In my boss' fortuitous position of being a Mentor & friend to many Millennials, a consistent topic that arises is that Malaysian Millennial Women complain that it's hard to find a Gentleman .. under the age of 30.
Seems from what were said, accoreding to this unofficial survey of over 9 friends (...& attractive Urban Malaysian Girls), the Malaysian Young Men that they have dated fall into 3 rough categories:
1. Those who want to get Married to their 1st GF & start freaking them out.
2. Those who are Totally Clueless & just need a Mom surrogate they can F**k.
(repeated Word for Word)
3. Those who are FuccBoi-Wannabes.
Seems that there's a strong demand for a Lost Category of Young Men ..
Prim & Proper Gentlemen.
Roughly defined as a well-groomed; both Physically and Mentally; a Guy with a Purpose in Life .. who starts off as a witty, charming and caring friend & eventually moves into the Heart of the woman he holds dear.
Generally we're describing a Dependable and Reliable Guy.
Granted we can't describe the process of being a Gentleman in a single article, we hope that the below will spark some thoughts in young Millennial Males on what to aspire for ..
In a nutshell, being a Gentleman is just showing how Evolved you Are inside.
That you're no longer a Boy .. but a Man in his Game.
...and Women. They LOVE that.